Author: Kristiana Ringer

“Growing up was tough for me. I lost my mom to cancer when I was very young, and not having her in my life made it hard to understand who I was. 

I was placed with relatives as a child, but unfortunately, those environments were abusive. My father’s violent behavior led to me being placed into foster care, where I remained for most of my childhood. Despite the trauma, I always viewed my struggles through a positive lens, knowing I wanted to give my children the love I never received.

As an adult, I found myself in an abusive relationship. After experiencing mental, emotional, and physical abuse, I knew I had to leave for the sake of myself and my unborn child. That’s when I found a supportive space at Crittenton’s Maternity Program, where I was able to escape the stress and fear of my previous situation. The safe environment gave me the chance to focus on my health and future.

My time at Crittenton helped me realize that taking care of myself was essential—not just for me, but for my children. Through therapy, I understood how important it is to be the parent I always needed. I stopped being burdened by my past and began planning for a future where I could provide stability and security for my kids.

Now, my goals are clear: break the cycle of trauma, create a loving environment for my children, and be the strong, independent parent I’ve always wanted to be. I want to show them that no matter what challenges come their way, they are capable of overcoming them.

One of my biggest achievements has been learning to speak up and advocate for myself. I was once shy and kept everything inside, but therapy helped me find my voice. I also focused on my education and career, and with the support I received at Crittenton, I am now on track to become a nurse and create a better life for my family.

With the right support, I’ve been able to heal and build a brighter future for myself and my children.”