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Author: Kristiana Ringer

“Growing up was tough for me. I lost my mom to cancer when I was just a few months old, and not having her in my life made it hard to understand who I was. 

I was placed with relatives as a child, but unfortunately, those environments were abusive. My father’s violent behavior led to me being placed into foster care at the age of 9, where I remained for most of my childhood. Despite the trauma, I always viewed my struggles through a positive lens, knowing I wanted to give my children the love I never received.

As an adult, I found myself in an abusive relationship. After experiencing mental, emotional, and physical abuse, I knew I had to leave for the sake of myself and my unborn child. That’s when I found a supportive space at Crittenton’s Maternity Program, where I was able to escape the stress and fear of my previous situation. The safe environment gave me the chance to focus on my health and future.

My time at Crittenton helped me realize that taking care of myself was essential—not just for me, but for my children. Through therapy, I understood how important it is to be the parent I always needed. I stopped being burdened by my past and began planning for a future where I could provide stability and security for my kids.

Now, my goals are clear: break the cycle of trauma, create a loving environment for my children, and be the strong, independent parent I’ve always wanted to be. I want to show them that no matter what challenges come their way, they are capable of overcoming them.

One of my biggest achievements has been learning to speak up and advocate for myself. I was once shy and kept everything inside, but therapy helped me find my voice. I also focused on my education and career, and with the support I received, I’m now on track to become a nurse and create a better life for my family.

With the right support, I’ve been able to heal and build a brighter future for myself and my children.”

 “I was in the middle of my senior year of high school when I found out I was pregnant. A month before finding out, my family and I had just been evicted from our home and were staying in a hotel.  The day I took the pregnancy test, I could only think of myself as a failure. I thought that I wasn’t going to be able to receive my diploma and that my life was over completely. 

I stuck by the phrase “Move with faith, not by sight”.  After researching and looking up resources for days, I found Crittenton on google. And from there it’s like God worked through Crittenton to provide for me and my baby.  I didn’t have to worry about sleeping on the floor any more at the hotel or going to bed hungry. Crittenton provided me with food and support.   

My case manager at the time would encourage me on the days I felt down. It motivated me to keep going with school. On June 14th this year, I was able to catch the train back to Raleigh and I graduated from high school and received my diploma. After graduating high school, I applied for jobs and started working and saved up my money. From there, I knew I could accomplish anything I put my mind to. 

Thanks to Crittenton I was able to attend childbirth & parenting classes so I could prepare myself for labor & motherhood.  Thank you to Crittenton’s chef, she even took the time out of her day to teach myself and the other girls on maternity hall how to make your own baby food. She even taught me 1 on 1 how to prepare a meal for a 6 month old baby. The days that I felt like giving up and quitting, my case managers would always tell me “You got this! It’s going to be okay”. Thanks to their support I kept pushing myself to go to work every day and save money.  

Here I am here 9 months pregnant feeling really blessed! Without faith in God & Crittenton’s support, I don’t know where I would be right now. 

Thank you so much for supporting me, Crittenton!”