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Author: Kamaria Clifton

In a few days it will be a year ago that I came to Florence
Crittenton, and I will never forget that day. Living with
my friend and her family was more of a struggle than I
had anticipated. I never imagined I would find out that I
was pregnant and that my friend’s family would fall into
such a financial struggle. Everyday I went to bed hungry,
and every morning I woke up just hoping there would
be something that I could eat. I would pass out because
I was not eating enough. The day I found out I had
Hepatitis B my friend’s mom told me to go to a shelter,
I was devastated. I felt like an animal that was being
caged. I could not be more thankful that I ended up at
Crittenton. I felt a sense of relief once I walked through
the doors. I don’t know if I was more excited about being
fed or having a place of my own to sleep. Everyone there
became my family, all the staff and all the residents. I felt
so welcomed and loved by everyone there. I just want to
thank you for everything you did for me and my daughter.
I cannot thank you enough.”
—email from a former client

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Story #3

In a few days it will be a year ago that I came to Florence Crittenton, and I will never forget that day. Living with my friend and her family was more of a struggle than I had anticipated. I never imagined I would find out that I was pregnant and that my friend’s family would fall into such a financial struggle. Everyday I went to bed hungry, and every morning I woke up just hoping there would be something that I could eat. I would pass out because I was not eating enough. The day I found out I had Hepatitis B my friend’s mom told me to go to a shelter,
I was devastated. I felt like an animal that was being caged. I could not be more thankful that I ended up at Crittenton. I felt a sense of relief once I walked through the doors. I don’t know if I was more excited about being fed or having a place of my own to sleep. Everyone there became my family, all the staff and all the residents. I felt so welcomed and loved by everyone there. I just want to thank you for everything you did for me and my daughter. I cannot thank you enough.”
—email from a former client

110 stories, in 110 days, to celebrate 110 years of service

Story #2

Why I work at Florence Crittenton Services:

39 years ago there was a teenager who became pregnant by her high school sweetheart. She was 16 years old and terrified to tell her mother. The teen reached out to her older sister who was studying to be a nurse in Washington, D.C. Her older sibling told her that she did not need a baby because she was still in school.
She was still terrified and undecided about what to do. She finally talked with her mother and they found out about Florence Crittenton Services. The teen was about to enter her senior year in high school and wanted to finish but could not bear the thought of returning to her high school while she was pregnant. So the teen attended the day school at Florence Crittenton Services and was able to finish high school. She went on to become a successful mother and has always been thankful of the support she received at Florence Crittenton. What she went through was tough but she did not have to face it alone.

I first heard this story when I was applying to work at Florence
Crittenton. I mentioned the name to my mother who told me this story. So my working here is in dedication to my mother’s struggle as a teen parent to find a place where she could be supported, continue to pursue her goals and make the choice to have me. So that is what has kept me here this long. I am living proof of health and hope.”
—FCS Staff Member

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Hello, I’m Jackie. I am 18 years old and come from a small town in North Carolina. When I got pregnant and said I was going to have my baby, my family handed me my birth certificate and said to me, “you’re homeless.” “You’re so stupid; do you even know what you’re doing?” They quickly called the police to report me as a runaway. They had brought me my belongings in three trash bags. My uncle and his girlfriend also reminded me that my mother had just gotten locked up the night before on a drug bust. So I had nowhere to turn to and no place to go.
I was placed in foster home. My foster parents took me in like I was a part of the family. They were so kind and nice, and until this day I still keep in contact with them and go to visit them in their home. They will always be family in my heart.
I left their house on June 2011 to come to Charlotte. My social worker told me about a place called “Florence Crittenton,” a program that would give me all the help I would need while being a pregnant teen and a teen parent. When I came to FCS I was sad, probably because of all of the pregnancy hormones, but also because I was leaving both my foster family and my biological family. During my stay in the maternity wing, there became a bond between me and all of the other girls, like a sisterhood. Even though I was the youngest, we were all at the same places in our lives, wondering what was next.
In August, I moved downstairs to “Sarah’s House,” and on September 20, 2011 at 5:51 am my beautiful, healthy 6lbs 12 oz 19 in baby girl came into this world. Having carried her for nine months really changed my life. It made me grow up because I knew I was bringing a child into this world and I had to set an example for her. During my pregnancy, I attended school every day and maintained A’s and B’s. When I looked into her eyes for the first time, I knew what I had to do. I knew that I wanted to provide her with a better life than I had. I was going to break a generation curse on my mom’s side and be a part of my daughter’s life and show her true love.
I started doing what I do best and applied myself in school harder and started getting back into my artwork. Through my artwork I captured the hearts of many.
I am currently on the verge of graduating, as number ten in my class. I am also a participant with the Mayor’s Youth Employment.
I want to become a graphic designer, and then eventually become an art director. To give back to my community or possibly the world, I want to start a program helping people who have been through domestic and sexual abuse.
I would also like to become a motivational speaker, telling my story of my own sexual abuse experience. In the end, I just want to plant a seed in this earth, knowing that it will never die. Just like a church hymn I remember singing, “I just can’t give up now, because I have come too far from where I started from.” So I am going to keep going because I know if I believe, I can achieve.

In honor of our 110th anniversary of serving women, girls, children, and families, we will post 1 story a day for then next 110 days written by current and past clients, volunteers, staff, and anyone who has been impacted by the indelible presence of Florence Crittenton Services of North Carolina.

Never underestimate that a small group of thoughtful, committed individuals can change the world. Indeed it’s the only thing that ever has.
-Margaret Mead

Our community can help stem the tide of criminality

From Tracy Hanna Hewett, Mecklenburg County Assistant Public Defender:

What if I told you that my career goal is to run out customers? And further, that I am working hard to achieve this goal? You would probably immediately, and correctly, assume that I do not sell cars or insurance.

Then, you might, incorrectly, assume that my job does not depend on serving customers. In fact, I have served over 11,000 customers in my career as a public defender. Some customers brought new customers who, occasionally, were their offspring. And I am trying to stem the tide.

My customers, or clients, are poor and have been charged with crimes that range from misdemeanor trespassing to habitual felony breaking and entering. By the way, I am a real lawyer and love my job, which some have called “the Lord’s work.” In addition, I am a long-time member of this community and want my family, which now includes a 6-month-old grandson, to be safe.

The community has a vested interest in helping me stem the tide.

Guided by research on the subject, I have determined that there is a place to begin: the womb. This is the essential starting point, not only to stem the tide of criminality but also to reduce or eliminate the social ills that are both cause and effect of my continued customer base. That is why I have been an active board member and supporter of Florence Crittenton for over six years.

Florence Crittenton has a name that sounds old because it is old. In 1903 the organization was a “home for unwed mothers,” most of whom did not keep their babies. By 2013, this nationally accredited organization will have provided comprehensive services to nearly 40,000 high-risk single, pregnant adolescents and women, and their children. The statistics are daunting: 95 percent choose to parent but are economically and environmentally disadvantaged; 94 percent report history of child abuse, domestic violence and/or sexual assault.

The outcomes are no less than amazing for the mothers: 100 percent of adolescents enrolled in school or education-based programs; 91 percent excelled on parenting competence skills; 82 percent avoid repeat unplanned pregnancies during the first year of follow-up. As the mother’s prenatal care, safe and healthy environment and education improves, so does that of their babies: 100 percent born drug-free over the last five years with an average birth weight of 7 lbs. 7oz.

On Tuesday, Florence Crittenton will hold its annual fundraiser and honor Judge Lou Trosch, a man whose influence goes well beyond the borders of this county and state. Judge Trosch has improved the lives of families and children since his appointment to the Mecklenburg County bench in 1999. Judge Trosch has been an agent of change in this community by virtue of his vision and implementation of programs that educate, inform and support mothers, not only empowering them to become productive citizens but to provide a future full of hope and health for their babies.

If the picture of healthier, happier moms and babies alone doesn’t move you to action, maybe this will: A single healthy baby saves $4 million in potential lifelong costs to taxpayers, compared to a baby born with a low birth weight, addictions or other health issues. I hope you will help us honor Judge Trosch and continue the amazing work of Florence Crittenton.

Read more here: http://www.charlotteobserver.com/2012/05/14/3234821/our-community-can-help-stem-the.html#storylink=cpy

 

FLORENCE CRITTENTON SERVICES HOLIDAY GIVING KICKED OFF

RODGERS Organizes Golf Tournament Raising $21,000

Holiday giving started early this year as approximately 100 golfers came out to Cedarwood Country Club on Monday, October 31st for Florence Crittenton Services’ Annual Golf Tournament. The event, held in collaboration with Rodgers Builders, Inc., raised over $21,000.

Construction industry leaders and community members made up the teams that played to support Florence Crittenton Services in their mission of promoting Health and Hope for Tomorrow’s Children by providing comprehensive health, educational, pregnancy prevention and social services for single pregnant and non-pregnant adolescents, women and their families.

Last year, FCS served 94 women in the Maternity Program, and 21 mothers and children in the Sarah’s House Program. For the past four years, 100% of Florence Crittenton clients have delivered drug-free babies; 93 clients participated in the Vocational Program; 20 clients enrolled in GED programs, 30 actively pursued employment, and 3 went on to a local college or university.

Headquartered in Charlotte, Rodgers is among the Top 10 National Healthcare General Contractors. Eric Reichard, Rodgers’ Chief Operations Officer and organizer of the golf tournament, lends his personal support as a Board Member of Florence Crittenton Services and was the agency’s 2010 winner of the Lucille P. Giles volunteerism award.

Marilyn Thompson, CEO of Florence Crittenton Services shared, “Involvement from Rodgers made this event a success. We are truly thankful for the support we have received from the business community. As in most households and organizations every penny counts and we use all our resources to help the mothers and babies in our care. We don’t think it gets more important than giving to children what we all deserve, health and hope.”

Join our team! FCS is hiring and internships are available for Fall 2011.
Please go to the Careers tab to learn more.

 

 

June 15, 2011:

Florence Crittenton Services supporter and Momsie Blogger, Beth Barden, recently completed a significant project for the Sarah’s House Mother-Child Program.

She gathered friends and fellow supporters for her “Extreme Room Makeover,” and redecorated the living room and kitchen from top to bottom! To quote a Sarah’s House client: “This place feels so much more like a home now.”

Beth’s project will be featured in an upcoming issue of Southpark Magazine.