We are honored to share the powerful story of a former Crittenton Maternity Program client, told in her own words. At just 16 years old, she found herself pregnant and without the guidance she needed, until she walked through our doors. Now pursuing a degree in Social Work, she recently reconnected with us and shared an essay she wrote, A Journey of Hope: My Time at the Maternity Home. Her story is a testament to the importance of safe, supportive spaces for Black mothers—where they are not just heard but uplifted, not just cared for but empowered.
As we reflect on Black Maternal Health Week, may her journey remind us why spaces like Crittenton matter.
“When I look back at my experience of becoming a mom, it was both terrifying and life changing. With limited support from my immediate surroundings, I was glad to have found Crittenton. This residential facility was meant to support pregnant individuals, offering housing, maternity support, and educational programs for young women and families who need a safe environment during their pregnancy. This was not just any home, though; this was a place where I was met with love as well as acceptance. Their guidance and opportunity here made me capable of becoming a mom. Little did I know that this place would leave a remarkable journey of growth to become a new mom at such an early age.
From the moment I walked into Crittenton, I remember being greeted with warmth. The staff here were nice and polite in welcoming me. Here I was, 16 years old, young with no guidance, and going into a new place while pregnant was very scary for me, so having the staff who made things easier for me gave me a sense of hope. I learned to trust myself and my abilities, and I realized I wasn’t alone on this journey. I started by going over the rules and policies after my introduction. After this, I was able to take a tour of the facility. I can remember the noises of baby cries and laughter. Each room was designed so that new moms could have their own space for privacy. I had my room which became my sanctuary. My space was nice and clean, and I received toiletries, linens, and things I needed to have comfort.
The environment played a huge part in my finding empowerment to become a new mom. They aided with doctor’s appointments. I had a case worker who helped me navigate resources, like making sure me and my expecting child had the things we needed. They offered many educational programs for women who lived here, so I was able to still go to school and get my education. They also had programs inside the facility that were meant to be used to foster independence. For example, there was a baby boutique we could shop at that featured things like car seats and strollers that were essential to becoming a mom. To shop at this boutique, we had certain goals we could complete like attending school and completing chores. Upon completion of the task, I could shop in the baby boutique for things I needed. I treated my bucks like real money. I was able to go shopping for things my son needed. I gained a lot of responsibility knowing that I was ultimately learning how to provide something for my child. So, when I left this home and went back into the real world, I was more confident as a young mother because of those experiences.
Another aspect of this program was the emotional support. I connected with other young mothers who went through similar experiences. The community here was strong. We shared our struggles, fears, hopes and dreams. Our late-night conversations often turned into thoughts about what motherhood would mean for us someday. There was comfort in knowing that I wasn’t alone. Those positive engagements made me feel accepted and finally a part of something in life. Being a teen mom, I already felt at risk so much that having positive support and people to relate to was something that made me feel better about my situation.
As the days turned into weeks, I began to feel more confident and empowered. The maternity home nurtured my growth and development. Because of my experience there, I now understand the importance of having a supportive and nurturing environment when going through challenging times. This home not only provided me with a roof over my head, but it helped me to gain a sense of independence. I received help with necessities and educational support which has helped me understand the responsibility of what it’s like to become a new mom. It also gave me a sense of community and I learned a lot about what resources to use for personal growth. Looking back, I am glad that I had an opportunity to complete this program. I am now a mother of four children whom I love and care for full-time. I take my role seriously and I am more confident with myself. “